My man is going before the parole board in Jan. Can anyone give me advice on that ? He is in Ny. Has anyone gone through the Ny parole process ? I need all the help I can > Like everyone else I want him home with me !! He got 12 to 25 yrs & hes done 16 & been turned down I think twice . We r due to get married in Oct. at the C.f. will that