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toni sevchuk — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 06:13:30 GMT

The only thing i have ever heard on this subject is only gay sex with other convicts...which is discuting to me. So hopefully there are some real men in there simply holding out or holding on to there own....but i am sure that there are "straight" men who engage in this gay sex while in prison and never talk about it...?~~Toni

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NileMusiq — Sat, 27 Oct 2007 18:27:07 GMT

My fiance is highly committed to me and loves me dearly, this I know. I love him equally as passionate. We are soulmates, annd he has proposed. After all his parents, both reverends, taught him about the sanctity of marriage. Uh, yeah, that's right, just call him the American Gangster. Dude still had family values, okay? Values a convenant and declares our love will last til his casket drops! Yet, he will not be up for parole for another 5 years. I am a normal woman, but I have been celibate for 4 years.

To the point, he says that if I want or feel the need to have sex, he will accept it, but just talk it out with him first, so he won't feel like I'm harboring a relationship. He is not telling me to date, but that he would understand if I feel the need to be held and feel weak enough to go get it. He will not judge me or bash anybody, he just wants to be able to talk to me about my feelings. What?!

Well, last week a female CO grabbed him by his magic stick. He basically went off, so he says.Her breath smelled and she was unattractive. (On some prison sites, that is what all the prison hubbies tell their mates, and most lap it up like ice cream). However when I started to tell him about this platonic relationship I have with my friend Pierre, he hit the roof because he knows Pierre likes to flirt. What happened to his offer? So I gave him the same offer he gave me. Again he went ballistic and so did some of my friends. Am I being abnormal and too nonchalant in my attitude? Can men be faithful while in prison? If so it must be a small percentage. Am I imagining the stories of homosexuality, inmate w/CO relationships? This woman practically called me a fool. I am tired of these women saying they would dump their men in a heartbeat if they found out they were sexing some female while they were incarcerated. Why believe this, if you are still with him when he did it while free, and beat you, stole from you and constantly let you down, over and over again? Does having our man locked up instantly give us new standards, and infuse the offender with them? Am I wrong to say speak as if this is reality or should I say the same things so that I make us all feel like we have our stuff together. I don't have my feelings together. Hell, I am in love with a inmate, who is a hot commodity with his smoking 8 pack, and tree trunk thighs!

I know me and my female co-workers walked the halls of those prisons lusting just like those prisoners do. One day I found myself showing cleavage and I have stretchmarks. Yes, yuck! I caught myself, and corrected my stinking thinking the next day. However being a spiritual being housed in a fleshly body, I know the spirit of lust when I see it. What am I thinking, saying or doing that is wrong? Does unconditional love exist or am I missing something obvious here?

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