Your letter is very strong. It comes off like you are tired and fed up. I would interpret the first section. Your mad it seems to me and you are telling him that he is treating you with disregard, shutting down in a sense. Truthfully the whole letter screams your frustraton. I know you dont want advise but I am going to offer you some anyway.
These men in prison have to shut down thier emotions in order to survive in there. If we get a letter or two that sounds like there is no feeling we have got to look past that. You know what you and your husband had before you were seperated by the razor wire. Dont let this destroy you all.
I would be very offended if I was the one getting that letter. OF course being locked up is not what he wants out of life, It is a cercumstance and he got caught up as we all could have. Your very angy in your letter. Please just put it away and take it back out when your no longer angry, youll see.
I do that all the time, when my husband upsets me, (practically every weekend) i write him a letter full of my anger, then i put it away, I release that frustration to the world but not towards him. He is in prison and a mean letter from me will only get him a case..........
Thanks to all who have responded both by Post and be private email.... I was overwhelmed and also see things a little differently!!
Thanks, again, EVERYONE! :)