You call the prison where your loved one is the day before,ask all the questions, and think boy will he be suprized. Only to drive for hours with crying babies ,then when you get there they tell you only 2 adults allowed to visit.So if you have a child age 17 they are concidered an adult. So being the good mother and wife, I go wait in the car while our adult kids (17 & 24) and grandbabies visit with there dad. Although we had gone for a visit 2 weeks prior with no problem ,only to return for disappointment. It wouldn't bother me so if it wasn't Christmas. Oh well he at least got to see his 2 new grandbabies. So double check before you hit the road.