My heart goes out to you guys. My baby is also in admin seg and he wants me to be his wife when i come. So much of
what i hear explains alot of what he feels. yes, they may have been spared life, and we pray they now want to live life abundantly. He has gotten into better spirits since he has settled in, and it shows in his letters. Your hubby will do fine, just keep writing and visit even if it hurts to see him
unless he says not to. Then i bet you still would. Good Luck, mrscooper