The only thing i have ever heard on this subject is only gay sex with other convicts...which is discuting to me. So hopefully there are some real men in there simply holding out or holding on to there own....but i am sure that there are "straight" men who engage in this gay sex while in prison and never talk about it...?~~Toni
Wow! Compelling subject.
All I have ever heard on this topic is that if someone was known to have engaged in sex with a gay inmate, it has always meant trouble for them from the other inmates.
Well it happens...i am sure they are obviously as private about it as they can be. My husband sent me a letter from another inmate while he was in the county jail a long time ago. The guy was basically offering my husband a "blow job" and also said he was a "straight guy" but would try anything "once or twice"....it went on and on...it made me sick to my stomach! I was furious that my husband would even send the letter to me, but he was angry and said he was "sick of these letters"...i think there are convicts that totally consider themselves "straight" and engage in this gay sex still...of course they don't go around and brag about it though. That is my view. I just hope and pray that my husband is not one of them! ~~Toni
Guys and homosexual are no worse than any other man who is in prison. Regardless of if they disgust you or not.
If you look at the general behavior of gay men in San Francisco & Hollywood, CA, you'll observe that like some (most??) single heterosexual men, gay men are often promiscuous. It's repugnant that homosexuals are allowed to mix with straights inside prisons, and it's easy to predict that if these men enjoy giving service to other men, they'd likely barter sexual favors in return for cigarettes, special treatment, or merchandise from the canteen at someone's jail account expense. The prisons & jails are creating an underground male prostitution market by letting homosexual men to mix with straights. I believe transgender men (men modified with bre+ast growth enlargement treatments) are segregated because you can't tell them from real women. The same policy should be adopted with gay men, to put a stop to gay sex activities.
With the absence of women, REAL straight men will simply masturbate for sexual release. Anyone who would consider gay sex, and claim he's straight, is lying He's either gay or bisexual, but a straight will never indulge in giving or receiving favors from another guy.
Ok, I would really like someone's insight on this one. Of course it would be hard on anyone being in prison or out and not being able to enjoy the pleasures of sexual intimacy;however, what's the deal with prison men coming home with major porn issues. I mean, going as far as stealing the laundry money to run across the street to put a quarter in a quick flick machine when he has an amazing wife right at home, and ordering thousands of dollars worth of porn on the cable bill back to back when he could of bought a $6 dvd and the downloads on the computers and phones. At first I thought it was just this one guy I was with but this has happened to me several times and they have all been to prison. Whats up with that?
Ok, this might sound a little bad because its about my man but im gonna try to ease your mind so its ok. My fiancee told me that porn is all they have in there, and that it floats around everywhere. Once you have had to see that for so long instead of a real woman, then it almost creates a better orgasm for you for lack of a better way to put it. Trust me your man thinks you are hot and all that, but the porn addiction will probly not get any better for a while. It will gradually become old to him. Just tell him how you feel and ask him to cut it down to a minimum. Hope this helps.