Hi all I am so upset right now with my bf he been writing me these letter accussing me of causing problems in our relationship. I believe he emotionally abusing me like when I ask him a question he turns it around and make it seem like I've done something wrong. He told me numberous time it's my fault that he is in prison because I nagged too much, he in there for DUI his third offence by the time I meet him, he also told me I was to fat, and ugly. I not sure why he doing this but I just went off on him and told him he couldn't man up and accept his blame for the stuff he does that I wasn't going to take his abuse. and maybe we should start thinking about spliting up. I've been through a 6 years relationship with an abusive man who beat me and verbally abuse me. I can't go thru this crap again. Help I need advise.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Hi! I am so glad I found this website. I've been trying to find something to help me with my bf. I've been so unhappy since my bf been in prison. I been looking for a support group to help me understand what he going through. I'm just not getting it. Everytime I go and see him we get into it. So now I not visiting or writing him. Is there anyone out there who can help get a grip on this, so I'll be able to be more supportive of him and not make his time harder on him.
My bf is in Graham Unit I looked on the inmate search and found out he been moved, from Fort Grant it's still in Safford, just not sure if it a better place or worst, so if anyone is going to Safford will you please give a great big shout out to my bf Mark Ortiz.
Thanks