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16 and in a prison relationship!! AHH!!
Ms. RideorDie

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Hello all. I am sixteen years old and a junior in high school. I have a man that is in prison he is 18 years old and I love him. He is amazing and he treats me well. We met when I was thirteen and we dated for a little while. We really connected. I broke up with him from hearing some unpleasant news but it turns out it wasnt tru at all. Well I switched churches and I ended up at a church with his family. I didnt know they were his family at first but then I started really missing him and I asked one of them if they knew him and he told me that he was his uncle. And one day his aunt invited me over after church and she said that she was going to see her nephew I asked who he was and she told me it happened to be him. I told her I wanted to go see him also so we went. At first we just started off writing each other and he began calling me. I was on a friend basis but he wasnt plannin on that ha. We continued to write and he began calling me like everyday. He told me about a month later that he wanted to be with me and have a relationship with me and that he had been thinking about me a lot since we broke up. I felt the same so we are now together. We have been together for 6 months now and we really love each other. We have a lot of trust and love and we communicate alot. He was sentenced to 7 years with one year time served but we are in the process of an appeal and have been granted the appeal so his sentencing and trial is being redone. I really love him and I want to be with him but it gets really hard sometimes. I am not a person that  really needs to have sex I guess but I do need that emotional relationship and we have that but every since he been at the prison we havent been able to communicate as much. I want to be his ride or die especially because I know he did not really commit this crime and he is doing someone else's time. I never stopped loving him and wanting to be with him. In my mind I know that he loves me. He even asked me to marry him. I said yes. BUT! So many people are being very negative and I just need some support sometimes. His family is very supportive but mine is not for real. I take care of him by sending him money and food and visiting him and trying to be there for him in anyway possible I have a job so its not a big deal. So many people say that he will not be the same when he gets out and that he will not wan to be with me and that its all just jail talk. I really love him but I'm just not so sure how to cope with everyone else. Can someone please give me some advise on how to deal with peoples negativity or even just your opinion on my situation.


Posted 18 Nov 2009 11:04 AM by Ms. RideorDie

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Mrs.Chavez wrote re: 16 and in a prison relationship!! AHH!!
on 20 Nov 2009 8:17 AM

Dont read the first one i messed up!

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WOW...i thought i had it bad...well mine is only doing 10 months in TDCJ bt its still hard...im not going to tell you your young you should move one...cause you seem like you want to be his Bonnie and hes your Clyde..thats how me and my fiance is...you know when he first went to jail...im new to this ,but when he first went i was the only one who visit him every 5days out of the week...not even his mom or bro came,his mom was in town and i wanted to go see him i was new to houston str8 from fl...and you know what she said...im not going to vist him...i had to hussle to put $$$ on his books! i became a stripper just to support him...once he saw everything i went threw thats how he knew he was inlove and wants to marry me cause i was the only one there and im still by his side...i sent his ass $150 on his books so he can eat his mom called me to see if i sent it i was like hell yeah! they were shock to see i sent him a dime! next month imma send his ass 200$ and his bro kalled me asking if imma hold it down for my man i was like yeah...he said not even his wife would...and she has his two kids...they said they never met a faithful girl like me...all i have to say girl is keep your head up high and dont give up ***...who care you dont need negative ppl in your life especially when there jealous to see a true couple!!!

fyi im not a stripper anymore...

heres my email money_maker239@yahoo.com you can reach me here anytime or even on this website if you'll like =]]

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